Sunday, July 13, 2008

How Would You Feel Being Called A Whore?

Do you believe that I am a whore? A prostitute? My friends? Do you? I know you guys don't. People who knows me, they know me truly. They know I'm not that kind of a girl. They know that I'll never do such a thing.

But if you were to be called a whore or prostitute or a chicken by anyone else in this world, would you even get angry? I know I would. Because those words are not a word to describe a person. Even if they are a real whore, they wouldn't even want a description like that. Agree?

Let's say, if a person who called you so, is someone who is close to you, someone who their blood is in you, who you're staying together everyday under one roof, which is your mother, how would you feel about it? Would you feel sad and hurt?

Well, for my mother, she thinks I'm one. What's her reason for calling me that? Is as simple as I stayed out late and comes home only at 12am or 1am. Is that even too much for a 23 year old girl to go out and comes back late? But this is still not as worst as the last. She's been calling me a prostitute since young, just because I have a bunch of male friends. JUST MALE FRIENDS!

There was once that she called me that too, I shouted at her because I couldn't stand her anymore for calling me that. After shouting at her, she did stop calling me that for quite sometime, but it wasn't for long.

And for all these while I've been shutting my mouth up, just letting her say whatever she wanted, I shut my mouth because I wanted to prevent any arguments. Even when I kept quiet, she'll ask why am I not answering? And saying that I am rude.

I was so mad just now after she gave me that phone call, and I purposely stayed a while more longer before I started heading home. All these while I wanted to stay out is just because of her. I don't want to get involve in any arguments.

Yes I admit that I do stay out late always, but that doesn't mean I am one. Why would she use such a word on her daughter? Doesn't she know that it will hurt her daughter's feeling? Even after she was told that her daughter doesn't like how she talk? For heaven's sake, once I got home just now, I had a headache. My migraine comes not only from work, but also from her.

4 says:

JoJo said...

Dar, everyone would angry if being called a whore...I know u also understand why she always angry of u ba...

That's the only way can solve ur problem... fai fai marry out ba =x

Just kidding =P but anyway, dun be so sad...Dun so mind of what she said, as long we're know u are not then ok le... =)

HsienLe said...

Yea I know... I just hate people to tie me...

Sangeeta Sinha said...

That's bad hsienle being called a w_ _ _ _ and that too, by your mother. This is simply not done. You know I have a daughter of your age. Whatever she will do, I will never call her that. In fact, she is so much involved in her studies that I keep telling her that her age is running out.....when will she have a boyfriend. he...he....

Don't mind if your mom is saying that......Take it in this way that she is, after all, your mom......and not all mom are like me (patting my own back!!)

Talk to her, ask her why she says this to you.......and......

HsienLe said...

LOL... I know that too... I know she's my mum and that is a fact... I'm just so angry that she calls me so... Although I am angry, but I just wipe it off the next day. This is just so my pattern. I write it out and let it go...